Go through these in order and stop at the first one that applies. If you are reading this for someone else, answer for them.
Call emergency services for breathing difficulty, fainting, confusion, seizure, severe chest pressure, or rapidly worsening weakness.
Trouble breathing or swelling of the face, lips, tongue, or throat is an emergency.
Seek urgent reassessment for worsening muscle spasms, repeated vomiting, inability to drink, very little urine, severe headache, or new chest or abdominal pain.
Rash, itching, fever, joint pain, or swollen glands developing days later may indicate serum sickness and should be discussed promptly with a clinician.
And for anyone, someone who:
Arrange routine follow-up if pain, weakness, or muscle soreness is not steadily improving, or if symptoms interfere with sleep and normal activity.
A clinician should also review increasing redness, drainage, fever, or swelling around the bite.
The article also says
Follow the discharge instructions given by the treating clinician or poison center.
Take only the medicines recommended for you, and avoid driving or alcohol if a medicine causes drowsiness.
If antivenom was given, follow instructions about delayed allergic symptoms.
To reduce future exposure, shake out stored shoes and clothing, wear gloves when moving firewood or debris, and reduce clutter in areas where spiders may hide.
Pest-control professionals can help if widow spiders are repeatedly found around a home or workplace.
Every sign above is quoted from the sofidex article on Black widow spider bite. If you are not sure, err upward — it is always reasonable to be checked.